Sunday 28 April 2019

(C) - Names - A mystery of innocent power!


Essay – Names




Life is a series of ancient traditions and customs which are based on beliefs, nature, and politics. Christmas, mid-summer, and Mayday are perfect examples. But, there is one big tradition that is different. A tradition that is shared by everyone living on earth. This is the custom of names. You have a name and so does everyone else.

But, what came first? You or your name? Your first name was easy. Robert for boy and sally for girl. Boys' and girls' names and all from a fairly short list. And, your family name? No list needed at all.

At some point in time, people started taking their names from their jobs or their natural surroundings. This happened all over the world. Let's say you're a Smith. In days of old, you were a Smith because you worked as a smith. And, of course, in days of old, jobs were passed on from generation to generation, and, to a point, they still are. All very logical. Everyone wore the same hat for centuries and centuries. But, why was a smith called a smith? What came first? The job or the name? A kind of chicken and egg situation. And, why are chickens called chickens and eggs called eggs and not the other way round? Imagine an egg laying a chicken! It could easily have been. Names are a mystery!

But, names are not only innocent labels. Names have a much deeper function as well. Association. Names connect people with character. Names are suggestive. Names are impressive. Lionel, for example, conjurers up strength and position. Other names are not so effective. But, beware. People hang character on names. Be careful when choosing a name for your child. Names often reflect the stupidity of the parents who chose them!

But, names, very deep down, mean existence. Every thing that exists does so because of its name. We only know what we know. And, we know it because of its name. If it doesn't exist – it hasn't a name. Names have to wait for existence. You, too, had no name before you were born! Black-holes were nothing before being discovered – then came the label “black-hole”. And, now, every-one knows what a black-hole is.

But, the real mystery of names goes back a long way. When did people first use them? When did people become different enough to justify a name? Did names begin as nothing more than very simple sounds? Were names our very first words? And, when did speaking begin? All very good questions. But, one thing is clear. Names are the most important things that there are. Everyone has one, and when getting to know some-one new, the first thing one asks is their name. Most people are proud of their names and most people like hearing their names.

Names are special. Names are our characters and soul. And, at the end of the day, it is you who makes your name great.

Life is made up of ancient traditions. Names are not only strong, they are permanent, too. Your life is your name and your name is your life.











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